Wayne Dyer always seems to calm me down every time that I listen to one of his programs. There is something in his voice, his wisdom, his delivery that just massages your soul.
He mentioned something in his talk today, about being truly inspired in your actions. All you have to do then is manage your coincidences...
Ironically, John C. Maxwell also shows that the toughest part of leadership is making decisions, that analysis equals paralysis, and that the only way to truly get things going is to make a decision and then manage it. Once the decision is made, then all you have to do is manage them.
Tony Robbins teaches that the only way that we can truly have power in our life is through the decisions that we make.
So with all of this being said, I have concluded that the only thing in this world that determines your direction is you. You and your decisions are going to either get you to where you want to go, and it is up to you to take responsibility for everything that is going on. You don't like the type of life you lead, then you have the power to change in an instant inside of you. Look at the things that you are focusing on. one simple question can change anyone's focus. I was in a position that everyone else thought was good for me, I didn't it, it came to an end, and suddenly everyone is worried about what I am going to do.
I could have seen this circumstance as a loss, but I chose to see it an an opportunity. Now I can truly; do, be, and have whatever I want. The only thing that is stopping me is myself.
Remove yourself as your own block. The most important conversations that you have are the ones that you have with yourself. Ever thought of doing something and then convinced yourself why you couldn't do it? Those conversations are life killers. Causes an echo of self doubt, mixed with fears of failures...and leads to paralyzation. If you are good at sales, then you sell yourself on why you aren't doing something.
Stop it. The day that you can answer the following question with a "yes" you will be able to sleep sound as a pound... Have I done all that I feel that I could today to the best of my ability? have I given it my all? Do I have the tools to do what I want to do? If not can I get them?
Ultimately, Dr. Bandura shows that the 2 questions that leaders ask are:
1- Can I do this? Yes
2- What is in it for me!
SO answer those questions. Become Obsessively inspired. And manage your coincidences. It will be amazing what happens.
Best of luck with the changes to come.
To your growth!
JC
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